Where to begin? I have been in a couple of relationships and there are some major things I have learned over time. The relationships I have been in were ones in which the girl and I spent all the time we could together. This is the first mistake one can make at a young age because it can to start to feel like you are getting bored and there is nothing special to do anymore. You sit in the house watch movies, go out to eat dinner, go to the movie theater, go to amusement part, or whatever it may be. When you spend all your time together, you never have a chance to miss the other person. You can simply start to feel overwhelmed and the outcome of this is space. And we all know what space leads to.
Next, in a relationship you want to make sure you always do what you did when you first got the girl/boy. This is a very important thing to remember the whole time you are with someone. Girls like to be brought flowers when you are taking them out or simply for no reason at all. Every so often when you are going to see them stop at the store and bring them their favorite candy or drink. And when the big occasions come around make sure your gift is extremely thoughtful and something they want. Lets own up to the front that we put up right when we meet these women and want them to remain in our lives. It should not be a front, it should be the truth. This would make it easy to keep them happy and surprised. It will add a spark and spontaneity to the relationship.
We must be understanding of the other person needs and wants. For example, girls love to talk about their days and want us to be there to listen to them. If they have had a long day, and you are with them make sure they don’t have to move a muscle and they can just relax. They want a drink or a snack, help them out and bring it to them. The more effort you put into someone the more effort they will give in return. Relationships are not a walk in the park, so you must be willing to go out of your way to make the other person happy. When you care for someone, it will not be that hard because their happiness will be the reason you are happy.
I have experienced it all. I have been in relationships lasting over a years. A successful relationship depends on how much you are willing to put in and work with the other person. Communication is the key and if it is not used there is no to even begin to do the things I have mentioned. There’s way more to relationships that I have mentioned.
Some people will hardly fight others will fight on a daily basis. But as long as you can communicate and get through ups and downs there’s no stopping what may be possible. It’s depends on how bad you want it and commitment. There’s also trust, loyalty, and honesty, but we all know how to maintain all of these.
You must also have someone who is willing to put in the effort you do and fight with you through everything
From my experience, I KNOW that these two things I have mentioned are keys to a good successful relationship. I will never change what I do, because women love these things.